Diets Don't Work! Weight Management Programs Do!
Many Americans view a healthy lifestyle as difficult to attain, and that's not much fun. Traditional diets have taught us that to lose weight, we must count calories, keep track of everything we eat, and deprive ourselves by limiting the amount--and kinds--of foods we eat. Diets tell us exactly what and how much food to eat, regardless of our preferences and individual relationships with hunger and satiety. Dieting can help us lose weight (fat, muscle, and water) in the short term, but it is so unnatural and unrealistic that it can never become a lifestyle we can live with, let alone enjoy!
While few diets teach healthy low-fat shopping, cooking, and dining-out strategies, many offer unrealistic recommendations and encourage health-threatening restrictions. Even more critically, diets don't teach us the safest, most effective ways to exercise; they don't teach us how to deal with our cravings and desires or how to attend to our feelings of hunger and fullness. Eventually, we become tired of the complexity, the hunger, the lack of flavor, the lack of flexibility, the lack of energy, and the feeling of deprivation. We quit our diets and regain our lost weight; sometimes we gain even more!
Each time we go on another diet of deprivation, the weight becomes more difficult to lose, and we become even more frustrated and discouraged. Then we eat more and exercise less, causing ourselves more frustration, discouragement, and depression. Soon, we are in a vicious cycle. We begin to ask ourselves, "Why bother?" We begin to blame ourselves for having no will power when we need clear, scientifically-based information that will help us develop a healthier lifestyle we can live with for the rest of our lives.
Deliberate restriction of food intake to lose weight or prevent weight gain, known as dieting, is the path that millions of people worldwide are taking to reach a desired body weight or appearance. Preoccupation with body shape, size, and weight creates an unhealthy lifestyle of emotional and physical deprivation. Diets take control away from us.
Many dieters get caught in a "yo-yo" cycle that begins with low self-acceptance and results in structured eating and living because we lack trust in our bodies and are unwilling to listen to and adhere to our bodies' signals of hunger and fullness. On diets, we distrust and ignore internal signs of appetite and hunger, and our need to be physically and psychologically satisfied. Instead, we depend on diet plans, measured portions, and a prescribed frequency for eating.
As a result, many of us have lost the ability to eat in response to our physical needs; we experience feelings of deprivation, then binge, and finally terminate our "health" program. This, in turn, leads to guilt, defeat, weight gain, and low self-esteem, and then we're back at the beginning of the yo-yo diet cycle. Rather than making us feel better about ourselves, diets set us up for failure and erode our self-esteem.
The attitudes and practices acquired through years of dieting are likely to result in a body weight and size obsession, low self-esteem, poor nutrition, and excessive or inadequate exercise. Weight loss from following a rigid diet is usually temporary. Most diets are too drastic to maintain; they are unrealistic and unpleasant; they are physically and emotionally stressful. And most of us resume our old eating and activity patterns. Diets control us; we are not in control. People who try to live by diet lists and rules learn little about proper nutrition and how to enjoy their meals, physical activity, and a healthy lifestyle. No one can realistically live in a diet mode for the rest of their life, depriving themselves of the true pleasures of healthy eating and activity.
We Don't Fail Diets; They Fail Us!
Decades of research have shown that self-initiated and professionally-led diets are ineffective at producing long-term health and weight loss (or weight control). When your diet fails to keep the weight off, you may say to yourself, "If only I didn't love food so much . . . If I could exercise more often . . . If I just had more will power." The problem is not personal weakness or lack of willpower. Only 5 percent of people who go on diets are successful. Please understand that we are not failing diets; diets are failing us.
The reason 95 percent of traditional diets fail is simple. When you go on a low-calorie diet, your body thinks you are starving; it actually becomes more efficient at storing fat by slowing down your metabolism. When you stop this unrealistic eating plan, your metabolism is still slow and inefficient, so you gain the weight back even faster, even though you may still be eating less than you were before you went on the diet.
In addition, low-calorie diets cause you to lose both muscle and fat in equal amounts. However, when you eventually gain back the weight, it is all fat and not muscle, causing your metabolism to slow down even more. Now you have extra weight, a less healthy body composition, and a less attractive physique.
Diets require you to sacrifice by being hungry; they don't allow you to enjoy the foods you love. This does not teach you habits you can maintain after the diet. Most diet programs force you to lower your caloric intake to dangerously low levels. The standard theory is that you will lose weight if you eat fewer calories than you burn. But you're losing muscle and fat when you eat fewer calories than your body needs to maintain life-sustaining activities. Your body breaks down its muscles to provide the energy required for survival.
Traditional diets that use calorie restriction to produce weight loss are no longer appropriate. Most weight-loss programs measure success solely in the number of pounds lost per weight loss attempt. Diets don't consider the quality of the process used to achieve that weight loss or the minimal likelihood of sustained weight loss. You must move away from low-calorie diets for long-term good health and focus on enjoyable physical activity and good nutrition. Exercising regularly and eating lean-supporting calories, protein, and carbohydrates, as well as reducing fat-supporting calories, will help you look and feel better and significantly reduce your risk of disease.
America spends billions of dollars on different ways to fix people. Focusing more on prevention and improving our day-to-day behaviors could cut health care costs in half. Contrary to popular belief, leading a healthy lifestyle doesn't have to be difficult, painful, or time-consuming. Making gradual, simple changes in your diet and physical activity will significantly improve your health and well-being and can drastically reduce your risk of disease.
If your weight management program is to be a success, everything you eat and exercise must be a pleasurable experience. If you're not enjoying yourself, you're unlikely to continue your program. It's that simple. These small, gradual changes are not painful or overwhelming, but the core of an exciting lifestyle you will look forward to.
Take the frustration, guilt, and deprivation out of weight management, and allow yourself to adopt gradual, realistic changes into your life that will make healthy eating and physical activity a permanent pleasure. You will soon discover what your body is capable of and begin to look, act, and feel your very best. Good luck and enjoy all the incredible benefits of a healthy, active lifestyle.










